Chris Hadfield just wants to have fun.

Chris Hadfield just wants to have fun.

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So, this happened… Guess which one is the astronaut?

I’m in Banff this week hosting and moderating a four-day conference for entrepreneurs. The group is Entrepreneurs Organization (of which I’m a member, by the way) and 250 entrepreneurs from around the world are here to learn from each other and from global experts.

Today, I got to share the stage with Chris Hadfield.

Ok, that might be a slight exaggeration. The truth is I introduced him, and then he spoke, and then I asked him some questions. But “shared the stage” just sounds better, doesn’t it?

He was inspiring and smart, and clearly a guy who is very focused and thoughtful about what he wants his life to look like.

One of his talking points that stuck in my mind is a question he asks himself all the time and what he encouraged us to ask ourselves:

“If everything went perfectly, what would my life in five years look like? Then I would work towards that.”

He spoke of the Space Station mission. It was a five-year project, ending with months in space. He was the commander. He sat down with his team of six people at the very beginning of the mission and asked that question: “What would perfect look like in five years?” They talked it through and came up with this list, with my comments in italics.

  1. We would be alive. (Makes sense, but good to say.)
  2. The vehicle would be okay. (I just think it was funny that they called the space station the vehicle. My Jetta is a vehicle for crying out loud.)
  3. Every one of us will have enjoyed it so much we would go through it again. (This was a big deal. Aside from the first two, maybe obvious goals, they had to enjoy the experience. There was no value placed in being a martyr or sacrificing yourself for some imaginary higher purpose. Each of them had to find reasons to enjoy the experience.)
  4. We would do some science for NASA. (This was the fourth priority. Not the first or second or third. Clearly important, but not the top piece.)

I really liked that list, because it had some big goals, and the first two involved a lot of focus and work every day. But the third one was surprising and powerful for me. Because my tendency is to think that the bigger the goal, the bigger the suffering. No pain, no gain, right?

But he was very clear that although his goals have always been big (“I want to walk on the moon”) his victory bar is very low. He is very big on finding joy in the process. “I try to win the day by 9 a.m.,” he said. He tries to find reasons to feel great about the day as soon as he wakes up. He has no time or interest in suffering for suffering’s sake.

That was an impressive learn. But my story from his sound check was even more so.

He came in for a sound check before he was on stage. Every guest we’ve had has done the same thing. When they come in, the place is empty except for the tech crew, the organizers and me. The speaker will come on stage, I’ll talk through their introduction, we’ll go over some questions that I will ask them. Then they’ll flip through their Power Point presentation or play videos if they have them, and test out the microphone.

That’s exactly what Chris Hadfield did. He flipped through his pictures on the screen, then said, “Can you turn this up really loud? I’m going to play a video of the rocket takeoff. I need this to be the loudest thing these people have ever heard.” The sound guy cranked it and the place shook – me, the tech guys, and 250 empty chairs shaking.

Then I asked about his introduction. “Do you want me to introduce you or do you want the video intro?” We settled on the video intro.

Then he asked, “What’s the lighting going to look like for the Q and A section?” The lighting guy showed him.

Then the sound guy asked, “Would you rather a lapel mic or a hand held mic?” He wanted a hand held.

Then we were done.  “I’m good, everything seems ready,” he said. “Anyone else have any questions?”

Liam, one of the tech guys, yelled out from the back of the room, “Yes – one more thing.”

“What’s that?” asked Chris Hadfield.

“Uh… what was it like trying to land the space capsule when you came back from space?”

And without missing a beat, Colonel Chris Hadfield, the most decorated astronaut in Canadian history, said, “Good question, because it’s a rough landing,” and went on to explain to Liam, the rest of the tech guys and me, how he got back to earth after his last trip to space.

You could hear a pin drop. And not just because the place was empty. But because he was such a decent guy, a man so proud of what he had been able to do for himself, for his country and our planet, that he took the time to explain to Liam in an empty auditorium how he got down from space.

Amazing.